Maryland Divorce Checklist — Step-by-Step (2026)
This checklist reflects Maryland's 2023 divorce law reform. Be sure you are using the updated post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov/legalhelp/familylawforms — older forms are no longer valid.
Phase 1 — Pre-Filing
- Confirm residency requirement is met (current MD resident; OR 6 months in MD if grounds occurred out of state)
- Choose your path:
- Mutual consent (both agree + signed Settlement Agreement) — OR
- 6-month separation — OR
- Irreconcilable differences
- Identify Circuit Court in your county (or your spouse's county)
- Gather all financial documentation:
- Recent pay stubs (last 2–3)
- Last 2–3 years of federal and state tax returns
- All bank and savings account statements
- Investment account statements
- Retirement account statements (401k, IRA, pension — marital portion)
- Mortgage statement (balance, payoff, monthly payment)
- Vehicle loan statements
- Credit card and other debt statements
- Business interest documentation (if applicable)
- List all marital property (acquired during marriage)
- List all separate property (pre-marital, gifts, inheritances) — keep records proving separate character
Phase 2 — Mutual Consent Path: Draft the Settlement Agreement
- Negotiate all terms with your spouse:
- All marital real property (division or sale, equity split, refinancing)
- All marital financial accounts (bank, investment, retirement)
- All marital debts (assign; indemnification)
- Separate property (confirm stays with original owner)
- Alimony (type, amount, duration — or written waiver)
- If children: legal custody, physical custody, parenting schedule, child support
- Draft the Settlement Agreement
- Both spouses sign the Settlement Agreement (notarization recommended)
Phase 3 — Complete Required Forms
- Download post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov/legalhelp/familylawforms:
- Complaint for Absolute Divorce (use current 2023+ version)
- Domestic Case Information Report
- Summons (if serving Defendant)
- Acceptance of Service (if Defendant will sign voluntarily)
- Financial Statement (if alimony is at issue)
- Child Support Worksheet (if minor children)
- Parenting Plan (if minor children)
- Attach signed Settlement Agreement (mutual consent path)
Phase 4 — File at Circuit Court
- Make 3+ complete copies of the packet
- File at the Circuit Court clerk's office
- Pay the $165 filing fee
- Receive case number
Phase 5 — Service
- Mutual consent: Defendant files Acceptance of Service OR is formally served
- 6-month separation: serve Defendant via certified mail, sheriff, or process server
- Confirm proof of service is filed with the court
Phase 6 — The Hearing
- Schedule the final hearing with the court
- Both spouses attend (mutual consent — both typically attend)
- Bring originals and copies of all filed documents
- Provide brief testimony
- Judge enters Judgment of Absolute Divorce
- Request certified copies of the Judgment (get 3–5 copies)
Phase 7 — Post-Divorce
- Name restoration: File with SSA → Maryland MVA → bank accounts
- Real estate: Prepare deed (Deed of Conveyance / Special Warranty Deed) → record at county land records office
- Vehicles: Maryland MVA title transfer
- Retirement accounts: QDRO for employer plans; IRA transfer for IRAs
- Beneficiary designations: Update all — 401k, IRA, life insurance, annuities
- Health insurance: Arrange new coverage within COBRA window (60 days)
Quick Reference — 2023 Reform
| Old Law (pre-Oct 2023) | New Law (post-Oct 2023) |
|---|---|
| 12-month separation required | No separation required for mutual consent |
| Fault grounds available | Fault grounds eliminated |
| Limited or absolute divorce | Both still available |
| Irreconcilable differences — NOT available | Irreconcilable differences — NOW available |
Last reviewed: March 2026 | Use only post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov | Mutual consent = fastest path — no separation required
SL
SoLongSoulmate.com Editorial Team
Researched using official state court websites and verified legal aid resources. Filing fees and procedures verified June 2026. General legal information only — not legal advice.
Last reviewed: March 2026 · Verify current fees and forms with your local court before filing.